Saturday, November 5, 2011

So what now?

So you're not getting any younger. Have you done all the things you wanted to do in your lifetime? Have you even done half of them? Ten of them?

Dave just asked me tonight, "When you were seventeen, what did you think you wanted to do with your life?" Holy shit! I just wanted to listen to music then someday go to England to listen to my favorite bands live then learn how to make music videos then be hired by my favorite bands to make THEIR music videos.

None of those last several things happened.

The older you get the more your friends want to get together to talk about their "life lists". Most of my friends have made and shared their lists and take pleasure at crossing off things on their lists. We revel together in their larger accomplishments and there's generally good juju surrounding the whole affair.

In regards to my own life list:
-I get stressed out at

Why? It's super easy. You just write down things you want to do before you die.

But what if you don't think you can do the things?

Then you fail. At life.

OMG, Sharon! Snap out of it! Why don't you start with a small list of 20? Here's some things you can think about...

-If you had a year left to live, what would you spend that time doing? Or if you were on your deathbed, what would you regret not having done?
-When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
-Who are your heroes? Why? Is there something about them that you can incorporate into your life?
-What would your three Genie wishes be? What if he gave you 20? Remember that with a Genie, time and money are not factors.
-Is there anywhere that you want to go? Even if it could change your life?

That's something to start on.

Maybe that's something for YOU to start on too?

Let's get started...


  1. my list is this. what do i want to do at this very moment in time. not yesterday. not tomorrow. not before i die cuz shit...that could be at this moment in time. SO. what do i want right now at this very moment. that, really, is the only moment that matters. (not dissing your post:)...just have had the realization that there is only now)...and it's really made me feel like a much happier person! no guilt about where i've been and NO pressure for where i'm going!

  2. Julie, I love your comment!!! You are and have always been like a Yoda to me. I love you sister!

  3. as long as you don't think i look like yoda:). I.MISS.YOU. love you back.

  4. HA HA! YOU are a MILF centerfold!!!